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Christmas ‘21 Guide

Christmas ‘21 Guide

Hi all, Merry Christmas!!! This year I decided to make a gift guide for you all that is filled with things I want as well. So whether it gives you inspo or puts a must-have item on your list I hope it sparks some ideas! My fav fashion/aesthetic is 90s supermodel meets Y2K! I am obsessed with the early 2000s and all things 90s so I tried to incorporate some of my favorites and must-haves this year. Also if you are trying to decide what’s trendy right now, this list has got you covered!! These are the “it” items this year!


Let’s start with vintage finds! Those are always my favorite treasures. It’s so special and very intentional to go and thrift something for someone. It’s unique and just for them! And the bonus is usually it’s cheaper to thrift something while still giving such a cool gift! My go-to vintage finds are cool rings, jewelry, a flannel, a jacket or a blazer! I feel like you can’t go wrong with those picks! I also included a vintage Ralph Lauren baseball hat because if you find one, BUY IT! I bought one at a flea market and it was such a great purchase!


Next up is any handmade goods. I love gifting someone with something handmade either by me or from Etsy! Again it’s special and feels more thoughtful. Here’s my grandmas Etsy page if you want any ideas! loveufirst

*Also you’d be surprised what you can find on etsy so check there first. There are so many cool, unique things on there. Even some thrifted or vintage stuff.


Shop local. Shop small. With everything that has hit the country in the last few years it makes shopping small businesses even more important. Not only are the things more specialty items but it isn’t your run of the mill, everyone has it gift! And the employees or owner can help you find the perfect gift! Here’s some of my favorite small businesses! 

LACH HAUS this is my cousin’s boutique and all her stuff is amazing!

CHARISMA the store i model for and post about all the time!

REDPILL RETRO redpilled and vintage. need i say more?

A LA MODE charisma’s sister store! awesome gifts and boho treasures!

ROBYN'S NEST vintage, vintage, vintage. i find so many gems here.

DENISE'S ADORNMENTS think boho and farmhouse collide!

OLIVIA'S BOUTIQUE a cute boho boutique!

Smiley Slippers

bieber who? these slippers are a fun treat for yourself or make a perfect gift! add some cozy pjs and you are all set!

THE gray sweatpants

ok don’t ask questions just get to your local target and buy these. they are amazing!!! i bought them on a whim and have been wearing them daily. they are beyond comfy and they fit great. the sweatpant, street style is so in right now and these are perfect for that look as well. i went with a size large for extra big fit! they are only $20 and are a must have!

buy me

Candles always make good gifts but these elevate the everyday candle. They are decor and very cool. The candle molds can make giving a candle feel more personal.

Patterned tights!!. Every blogger and fashion “influencer” has been rocking patterned tights. Obviously the designer ones are cool but definitely not worth it for tights that can easily rip! Try finding either a designer dupe on Etsy or pick a polka dot pattern like I have.
This company has great, sturdy tights. Calzedonia

i have these and love them. they’ve lasted 2 years & counting!

UGG Classic Mini II Boots

These boots are everything this season! Also sold out all over the place! Check in store because you may get lucky.

Whether you want old, vintage or new they will both make a cool, “old” vibe! I linked two versions for you to check out.

777

This necklace is perfection. I love numbers and especially 777. They also have other numbers available.

necklace

SUNGLASSES

these y2k inspired sunnies are fun and such a vibe!

Let’s talk bags! If you want to splurge this year these 3 designer bags are everything, Dior, Louis, Fendi!! They are definitely on my wish list! But good luck hunting them down because they can be tricky to find and all vintage bags! You will have to find them at a luxury, resale shop or one of those vintage bag resellers online! 
The furry, heart purse is an affordable find from Amazon. I think it’s super cute and totally in!

Furry Purse

MUST HAVE JEANS!
I love these jeans so much. By far my favorite I own right now. They are flattering, flared (with slits), high waisted, fitted, perfect color and SO SO COMFORTABLE. Honestly they feel like skin and are so soft and stretchy!

Fashion Trend Alert

brown.leather.blazers

Brown leather blazers!! Get one. They go with countless outfits and is such a staple piece. It won’t go out of style and mixing black and brown is all the rage right now. You can find a brown blazer many places but I suggest going a little oversized for this look!

this vintage, black, leather blazer is a total mood and available at my cousin’s boutique!!

knee high boots. if you don’t have them, now is the time to get them. i love these black, crocodile boots and they are definitely on my list this year!

Fur trim coat! Another piece I’m drooling over. There are many different styles of this coat but I love the leather and fur combo! I stumbled upon the coolest brand on tiktok, of course, but the coats come in drops and aren’t available right now! Linking the brand for when the next drop!

cool coat brand

I am searching high and low for this exact coat because I am obsessed! It was orginally from Princess Polly but not available in black anymore, just pink! I’ll link the closest I can find to this beautiful thang! 

Cowboy Boots

Do they ever go out of style? No. I own a few pairs and have worn them for years! I personally think the cow print ones are so cool and different. Very early 2000s. They are statement pieces and can add flare to a more basic outfit. Think little black dress + these boots!! Jeffrey Campbell makes incredible shoes and they are some of the favs I own! If you aren’t feeling the cow print there are many other color options to choose from! I’m linking both options.

the iconic necklace


my parents surprised me with this for my 30th birthday and I LOVE it. I wear it all the time and it’s one of those pieces you will have forever.

Cocktail book

i love a good coffee table book, cookbook or in this case, drink book! my friend gifted me this and i love it! not only is it adorable but the drinks are fun and unique!

prosecco made me do it

some inspo//vibe pics for you all to get inspired by!

Merry Christmas!!! Hope you feel inspired and ready to shop!!! 

xx,

Lex

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